I think after the D is finalized I will be ready given that I've been dealing with H's A for almost 10 months now.
I too feel the same way, but, I have the added dimension of my little girls. I think once they get a little comfortable with all this it will be time for their Daddy to start dating. Another thing that I think about, though now is not the time to worry about it, when is it appropriate for my girls to meet a significant other for me.
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I was always bending over backwards for him...he hardly did any bending.
I know what you mean by this. I won't say my W never did any bending for me, but the majority of the bending was done by me.
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I will get into a healthy relationship and it will all work out for the best...until then it's about finding myself and having fun.
Agreed.... and for me taking care of my girls.
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Take care...we are both going to be better, stronger people because of this and we will find the happiness that we are due.
