He just acts differntly each time that we talk...I think, according to the posts that I have read...this may be how a LBS reacts when a WAW attempts to come back. What I mean by he is living the bachelor life...he just goes out a lot...bought a harley, even though he can not afford it (told me he was contemplating bankruptcy). I am not sure that he"flipped" just think he also has a lot on his mind...and he gets close for a while, then retracts...not sure what that means? When we were married and things were good...he still had a lot of social contact with his friends, so it wasn't like he was isolated, or that I kept him from them...so I don't know that anything was missing...I just think he is hurting and this is how he is dealing with the pain...or this is my best guess at it...

H-32
Me-29
T-10years
M-4yr (10/04)
Me- WAW 1/07
I filed for D 2/07
D put on hold 5/07
H re-files for D 9/08
WOW! trying MC 10/08

"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"