You are right. I cannot control the counselor or the advice given. Just airing my concerns. Ultimately I think that her getting in to talk to somebody can only help her and as a result, us. I will keep updating, if only for my sanity. Trying not to show emotions with her one way or another. And I have a feeling the next few weeks are going to be interesting to say the least.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1162413&page=2#Post1162413 M-28 W-28 Together 10 years Married 2 years No children Things started taking a turn in 01/07