I honestly do not know when it will be time for me to start dating. I do miss having someone to talk to about my life and sharing of theirs. My friends are and have been great but it is not the same.
I don't know when I will be ready either. A couple of months ago, I thought it would take me months, maybe even a year...now, I think after the D is finalized I will be ready given that I've been dealing with H's A for almost 10 months now. I really would like to find someone with similar interests and outlook on life. My H and I were opposites...I think I would connect better with someone more like me. As I look back, I don't think my H and I ever had that great of relationship. I was always bending over backwards for him...he hardly did any bending. I do love him and always have, but now I believe that he was just too selfish to care much about what I wanted. Hopefully, at some point, I will get into a healthy relationship and it will all work out for the best...until then it's about finding myself and having fun.
Take care...we are both going to be better, stronger people because of this and we will find the happiness that we are due.
