Morgan, Be careful what you wish for! I am not a guy but after the word got out at the health club gym I go to almost everyday I got offers. Two offers to help me with the abstinence thing! One was married of course. I am 52 and married 27 years. I get along with a lot of the guys there and some of them are very nice to me. They can not believe that H would move out for the 3rd time no less. Some warned me about guys hitting on me. Most are divorced and just friends. I am by no means a hottie, told I am cute and guys love to talk to me. I listen and am sincere. I also play golf... and ride a bike. The club I belong to has a bar a lot of people sit at and socialize after classes or raquetball.