Thanks BNP. Yeah, somehow I think the next couple of weeks are going to be the turning point for us. Either they will go good and we will start to move along the road to recovery, or they will go badly and then it will be downhill from there.

I still don't think she has made an appointment to see an IC. I gave her the names of three IC's in our area, one of which was the one I saw. I think that the sooner she gets in to see an IC the sooner she can sort things out in her head and therefore, the better chance we have of working this out. I don't know for sure, but suspect that she has some sort of depression. ALthough, I am a bit concerned about the IC. I have heard horrible stories about IC's just giving horrendous advice to people with marital difficulties. For example, when one of my friends' parents were have marital difficulty, his mother went to see an IC, and the woman told her to have an affair to get her H's attention. Just like anything else, you can have a license to proactice but that does not mean you are any good at it.


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M-28
W-28
Together 10 years
Married 2 years
No children
Things started taking a turn in 01/07