Thanks GD, yes I do read a lot of the other forums. I have replied, even when I probably should have kept my mouth shut...lol. I realize my posts are long....I talk a lot...lol. In fact, I have spent too much time every night on the computer reading so many of the threads, etc. I know I should be spending more time with my H. I have said it many times that it has been my therapy to read this board and it keeps me from the temptation to contact the OM. I hesitate to even bring that subject up (the OM) because I know it is a painful subject with LBS. However, it is a daily struggle for me and until I can get past that point ....well, I can't pretend it isn't and that everything is rosey. I never discuss it with my H, of course, but you all, here, are my sounding boards and advice givers.

Thanks for taking time to talk to me. Good luck with your stitch.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!