But if we look at that we must question what does the other person really love about us and what do we love about them? The fact that they are willing to be deceitful and hide the relationship, or that the OP doesn't care about the Spouse's family or what it means to the kids. hurting others in the process.
...and what kind of way is that too start a R for either of the person's involved. If the WAS can leave his W and kids, who is to say that he won't do that with the OW involved or get back with his family and if she doesn't care about doing that to his kids then who's to say that she wouldn't do that to him. You can't trust either of the parties involved. If I start dating again and some man tells me that he is married but still living together, I will certainly give him an ear full. I will not play that game at all being this haappened to me and my kids.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
