I would ask her if she was interested in counseling. I asked my wife she said she didn't think it would help so why do it. Then she said why aren't we trying counseling or something different. So I said let's go to counseling again came "I don't think it will help." I left it at let me know if you change your mind I would like to go to couples C.
The other avenue I recommend is if she is still going to couseling on her own ask if she would mind if you each signed a consent form so the counselers could collabarate on where each of you are at, and maybe help that way! I will take a look at your thread.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
