Delia gave very good advice. It is extremely difficult to deal with this type of situation. When you talk to him be as brief as possible. I have been telling my children to answer the phone when they are around and my husband calls-thank God for caller id. Sometimes there is something I need to discuss, but when I need to I get to the point and then get off the phone as quickly as possible. I do not know if he is taking this as me being bitchy or moving on or whatever, but for right now it is all I can do. He knows the way I feel and that I will welcome him if he changes his mind, so I think it is futile to tell him again and again. I cannot change his mind, only he can. But I can act in a way that causes him to rethink his decision and change his mind. Does it absolutely suck? Yes. Is it painful? Yes. But it is all I can do right now. You can do it to. I think a 180 seems like one of the scariest things we can do, but there comes a time when it is all we can do to save ourselves. Good luck!
