Thanks for the ongoing support here! I am glad to you all to bounce ideas & questions off of. It certainly helps give me some insight to the other side of things.

To be fair, my Dad will be footing the bill for my rental since I cannot afford to pay my mortgage and a rental.

Yes, H has done some crazy things since this all started. He is def not thinking clearly. These crazy mood swings and personality changes are just part of the rollercoaster I guess. I keep encouraging him to seek IC as he has been unstable and think he would benefit from this while we are both seeing the MC as well. In a non-pressuring way of course...usually when I go see my IC I will comment on how much its helped me and maybe he would find it beneficial as well. He did see our MC 1 time on his own but H thought this would ultimately hurt our MC endeavors.

I am going to go and meet with the atty as planned. I really need to get a clear picture of my rights and protect myself.


Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.