Not sure. Not my jurisdiction or expertise. Sorry.
WAW, I think the change simply reflects that he wants you, and wants to save the M, but has no clue how to go about doing what's best for the sitch. He gets angry, upset, scared and is hurt, so he lashes out, and part of this he thinks will bring you around, shock you to your senses. If you can't take D4 with you, or come around, then surely you will end the S right?
Then he goes home and feels like crap. The fight was hard for both of you. He likes it no more than you, I'm certain. He feels bad. Resolves to be nice. And ocmes over and is nice.
He is just totally clueless about how he should be acting. He needs DR in a big way. Did you ever talk to the C about trying to get H on the program? If so, how'd it go? If not, why not?
As hard as it is to believe, I think H's real intentions/desires are the right ones, he just hasn't been educated about how best to accomplish it.
Hope it gets better. Hang in there.
Nomo
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link
