when I walked away I thought there wasn't any hope
Did you think you did not and could not love him anymore, or was it that you loved him but couldn't live with the type of R you had anymore?
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Yes we had had some really crappy times, but behind all of those crappy times where a ton more good times. I started to focus on the good times
Was it a conscious choice of yours to focus on the good times instead of the bad ones, or did it just start naturally happening more? Also did you start fantasizing about a new R with H that was wonderful and what you both would want?
Thanks for taking the time to help me out -- you've been very helpful!!! (((christa)))
Okay everyone, found a cute charm/key chain in the form of a cell phone to give the W. I had a hell of a time finding one (googled all sorts of stuff and only found two!). The one I found I liked the best is unbelievable, and unfortunately is reflected in the price. Here is what it looks like: cell phone I'm afraid that it will seem a little over the top, but really couldn't resist. I'm having it shipped overnight so I can put it with her mail when she picks up the kids on Friday. I think I'm going to put it in an envelope, and have it attached to a cute piece of stationary (or a cute blank card) that says, "Just want tell you how sorry I am that I didn't call you about the raft trip. This is to let you know that I won't forget next time (or the next, or the next, ...) GD."
What do you think? Any constructive criticism? Something else I could say, a way to say it better, etc? Think she will respond favorably to it?
