Thanks everyone for the advice,

I'm defiently going to keep the baby steps going. One thing at a time, and right now I'm really worried about her. However, i dropped son of this morning, got her breakfast. No serious talk, just pleasent interactions. Hugs before work.

She called later on, she wants me to handle the lease and get her home. Not sure her time frame, but seriously this like my 6th move in a year and half. I'm so good at it now, but I hate it. Then she says, I don't care how small but I want a vacation with just you and I, even if its an hour away, just something together.

Hard not to go head over heels, what helps and isn't good, is I'm really worried about her mental state. I don't want to go behind her back, but I thought of calling a particular co-worker and getting her opinion. If she found out though, I think I would be in major trouble, but not too sure I care about that, more for her. I guess I go that route if she won't seek help, which she said she would.

Bless you all for the encouragement, hopefully I can post more this evening.


Me: 31
W: 31
S: 2
Bomb 6-24-07
Seperated 6-24-07
W Filed October
Temp. Hearing 11-26-07
Completely Sober Jan. 2, 08.