GD's Dilemma, 4

[christarn]

GD...It took 4 mos of absolute silence between me and the H...then we slowly started to talk...(and just for the record I had no clue he was seeing someobody) my sister saw him one night at the local pub where we used to hang out...she told me how great he was doing and he had bought a harley...yada yada yada...this was the start of my turn around....I thought to myself ok ya dumbars...what is going to be...not that this was totally it but it was the start of things....It just kick started emotions in me that I hadn't felt in so long. I new then, what I had done, and what needed to be done. Yes we had had some really crappy times, but behind all of those crappy times where a ton more good times. I started to focus on the good times...So I am just curious if that is what your W is doing, if that is what might be behind some of those tears. I know I am not an expert...just someone who has been in her shoes...and when I walked away I thought there wasn't any hope...little did I know...there is always hope thanks again for listening!! hugs to you!!