Lessons from a former WAS

[Not Much Left]

goodfight
So, I have a question for you. I am wanting to ask my W about counseling, but I guess what I am afraid of is that I will get the "I dont know" or "I cant commit to anything" answer. Is this DBing to ask or should I wait for her to say something? If you have ever looked at my sitch, my W is VERY uncomfortable asking for what she wants and I suspect will always be that way. So me waiting for her to ask for anything may be just leaving things in limbo forever.

We are both in IC, although I dont think she is going anymore.

Love to hear your thoughts here.