The only way out is through, my friend. So let's talk about your plans for the future, shall we? You've got babies to support and a career to get going, since obviously SO cannot be counted on as a stable future source of support.

So - what do you want to do with your life? Got any career goals? If you could envision your life 5 years from now, what would it be like? What would you have accomplished? Where would you be living and what would be your occupation? Paint me a picture. Or a road map ;\)

Ellie