I think you can fairly safely say just about everyone on this board is honoring their marriage vows. However I can see how some might be lured away from them because of the rejection that they feel. We all want to feel good about ourselves and the attention of someone of the opposite sex is a very, very strong draw. Let's face it, it makes us feel good about ourselves and is a boost to our self esteem which has been beaten down so badly.
As for letting her know your new address, well I think that is entirely up to you. I don't think there are any hard, steadfast rules here.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
