if he did't like it he would mope so that I would know he didn't like the choice I made. His was still a PA behavior.

OH YEAH that was PA. I hated the non-verbal cues (moping, frowning, grunting, etc.) of expressing discontent even MORE than straightforward ways. Of course that IS the very nature of PA, right? Can't DIRECTLY say how they feel or what they want or you wouldn't have gotten there in the first place.




But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus