I think you are getting annoyed because you lived so long with a spineless man. My bf does this, too... and at first, it kind of annoyed me too... but, I gotta tell you... wow... what a wonderful thing. Now, if he says 'we will...' and I do have an opinion or preference, I speak up... but in a non-confrontational way. I will stand my ground. Otherwise, I just shut up and go have fun.
Thank you for disagreeing with me because I thought about it and realized that beneath my crack of annoyance is a huge canyon of "lack of trust". Gee, I wonder where that came from? I think I just get confused because I'm more fearful of being dependent than being independent. Well, according to the latest test I took on OkayCupid, I am a member of the Cute League which means that men are going to be inclined to pick me up so I guess that means that I better learn how to tumble so that I can stop worrying about getting dropped on my head to the extent that I feel like I should insist on walking. Practice makes perfect.
L:We will be going to the circus this weekend.
M: Sounds like fun!
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
