Anyway, I've kind of got the opposite deal with the guy I'm dating. Instead of "What do you want...?", I'm getting "We will...". Okay, I know you guys didn't think the pubic hair thing was territorial but you gotta give it up on the "We will...", right? I'm kind of annoyed. I feel it's rather presumptuous and/or cavalier.
I think you are getting annoyed because you lived so long with a spineless man. My bf does this, too... and at first, it kind of annoyed me too... but, I gotta tell you... wow... what a wonderful thing. Now, if he says 'we will...' and I do have an opinion or preference, I speak up... but in a non-confrontational way. I will stand my ground. Otherwise, I just shut up and go have fun.