I should post some links to my story. Over two years ago, I realized that I was being controlling. I stopped. I let her take full control of the divorce process and was amiable in that.
I have not done anything to control her or the children since I was kicked out.
Unfortunately, I can't find away to get the old links up. I am not being controlling now. I am hoping and offering the chance. She chooses not to accept it so I MUST move on.
Make sense. I will fill in gaps if you need me too.
Please explain changing my perception? What do you mean? You are right in that I have been there for her to help with the house of questions on finances, etc.
Jeff
Hillcountry
[color:"red"]I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it."
