Hello all.

Its been a tough couple of days. There was WWIII going on at our house on Friday. In a nutshell he doesn't want me coming and going as I please in our home. I told him to hand over my half of our savings and that I would be out of his hair by the end of the week. But since I still pay half the bills at our home I would continue to come and go as I please since my daughter and dog are still there with him. He then stated that he would be entitled to a key to my place if thats the case. More controlling BS but I have nothing to hide so I said that I would not have a problem with that. Then he continues on the path that I am not taking D4 to my new place on my nights with her. He told me he would give the cash anytime I wanted without complaint or need for legal intervention.

So needless to say after a good 45 minutes of arguing we both leave. I stayed at my house with D4 Friday and H arrives back Sat AM before our MC sesh and its like a pod person has invaded him! He is nice as pie and sucking up to me like nobody's business. Not sure what transpired between the nasty argument the evening before and that morning but if left me on edge and wondering where this sugary sweet attitude is coming from...He also tells me he thinks that I/We should just buy another multi family house and I can live there and rent out the other units. So that way my "rent" money wouldn't go to waste...he even had houses scoped out for this endeavor.

So needless to say, I am bit shell shocked, don't know what to make of his sudden change in attitude and I am afraid he is up to something sinister...

All I know is I still have an appt with a pitbull atty on Thursday. His recent behaviour has me in a spin and I not sure how to proceed.


Last edited by waw1978; 07/31/07 01:09 PM.

Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.