Living with my WAW 3

[SuperDad]

Dave,

I don't think I could go a year from now if there was no improvement in our sitch , perhaps a year from the bomb ?

Interestingly, my IC asked me a month ago (rhetorically) "How long are you willing to do this?"

The only answer I could give was "until I am satisfied that there is no way to make our M work".

I still believe in the concept that marriage is a lifelong commitment and that by honoring that commitment, it is possible to create a bond between two people that can be like no other. Since I have already created a family with my W, with two GREAT kids, a great group of friends, and many, many things in common between us, I see no reason to not try everything possible with this R before giving up on it.

Hey, they don't include "for better or worse, in good times and in bad" in the wedding vows for nothing!

In the end, there is no point in setting a time line for a stich like this. You don't know what tomorrow will bring, much less how things will look a week, month, or year from now. Best is to focus on yourself and to use this time to really understand what you want to do with your life!

Stay cool Dave,
SD