No real change from my previous thread. Things have calmed down considerably since the blow up in regards to settlement of assets.
W has been pleasant again, after our long conversation in regards to divorce and other matters. We have come to an agreement with pretty much everything (as impossible as most of you may think in regards to agreeing to anything when it comes to custody and assets etc).
She came home early from Kick boxing yesterday (earlier than ever before), and today she didn't bother going to rock climbing (for the first time in 10 months).
I get the impression that she is not as happy as she thought she would be. Possibly due to my conceding that there can be no resolution, that she has gone too far to "mend" things.
I know it may get some of you angry with me, but sometimes you reach your limit, and I am a reasonable and considerate man, but to be honest, I could never forget let alone forgive everything that has happened. That is me being honest.
So my main aim now is to be as civil and caring to W as I can, and make sure that DD is looked after, and does not feel the effects of this divorce (as best as I can make it for her).
Who knows what may happen in the future, but for now I know this is the best option for me and DD.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
