I heard an interesting thing the other day from another marriage saving guru, that you should give it at least a year if not for this marriage for your next relationship. This made sense to me, but certainly is no easy task.
So when does the clock start ticking? I dont think I could go a year from now if there was no improvement in our sitch , perhaps a year from the bomb ?
SD seriously I admire your efforts as your sitch is quite difficult , but you have the right attitude and ideas
