Great update, christa! If he's dreaming about you -- no matter what it is -- he's thinking about you. Trust me. I dream about my W 4+ nights a week, and I know it is because of how much I think about her. Sure, H is lonely because he's on the road, but he called you about it. That says a lot! And don't worry so much about the flat out "no" about dinner sometime. He's confused on what he wants to do right now, and probably doesn't want to make it easy if you want to come back either. He is kind of like the WAS right now in that he's going to get closer, then pull away. Get closer again, then pull away. Just let those pull away moments roll of your back like water on a duck's back. Stay focused. Also, try not to be too unavailable. I would suggest being more available than not right now.

Hope all is still going well!

GD


Me:29 XW:27
T: 10 M: 7 (2 kids)
Sep: 11/06/06 D'd: 12/07/07
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