I talked with S Harley today from MB about my sitch and the Plan B letter. He agreed with it but thought it could use a bit more about WS's path back. It's interesting what people perceive of my sitch when I tell about it. I'd never thought of it as "bad" as it sounds to others, well accept the A buisness. But posting and counseling really start to change that and kinda help you see it differently. I was riding the coaster again (yesterday). She had left a heated voicemail that tweaked me. But the no contact thing seems to help as you don't have to hear things that tweak you. I really see the value in NC. I've not talked to or seen her since Friday, although she is still in the house. She hasn't stayed away. She left another voicemail after she went to work yesterday that stated she wanted to stay here in our house again last nite. I sent a message to her through counselor asking that she respect my NC request and not come back home till at least Wed. He called back saying that she said she had no where to go and didn't want to sleep in her mini-van and would leave in the morning. She also said she wanted to start IC with him after I moved out. She's been here most all day. And is here tonight. I've been shopping for, and moving into the new digs all day and the girls and I were cleaning it and organizing it this evening. My WS went to IC with my counselor today. She told the kids to tell me that. Interesting. The kids and I went to counseling with counselor and his wife last nite. Not much counseling for the kids, but they had a great time hanging with his wife. And they want to go back. Kewl. A lot of drama lately, complete with twists and turns. Tomorrow is the day the kids and I move out. Crazy.
