Ok, got the change of address card in the mail today for her. Being that our lease is up in a couple of days, I guess that's something that would have to be done anyway. Just makes me sad to see our entire first year of M crumbled into dust in front of my eyes, while she runs around town drinking her sorrows away. I want her to call me, begging for my forgiveness and to let her come home (don't we all?), but know that I will be moving in a few days to a new place that I picked out on my own, and for the purpose of keeping my own head straight through all of this. Anyone have any opinion on whether I should call and tell her where I have moved. or does this break the NC rule? Part of me just wants her to have to look for me. Sometimes this all feels like a big game, even the DBing. Does anyone besides we DBer's honor their vows anymore?
