Not much to report realy, Interactions with W are good. I have been concentrating on trying to build up trust and attraction. Trust by ensuring that I do not ambush her with any difficult stuff when she is around , and not pushing any buttons that will make her feel guilty. Attraction is a bit harder but I am being a little more playful with her and flirting just a little , then backing off.
I am pretty much treating her a someone I would like to get to know better but am unsure if the feeling is mutual. So its about doing something and judging the response. I have even made some contact by txt and then left if for a couple of days.
The results.
1. She answers txts with wordy replies instead of the yes/no/ ok that I used to get.
2. She is happy to do things for me when I ask.
3. She laughed when i touched her playfully last time I saw her.
Its hard to convey the change in attitude in writing but its there and she is making an effort too in her actions.
No words yet but they don't count anyway. There is no indication that she is thinking about revisiting our relationship and I think that she is still some way from that.
I am being very cautious, shes like a timid bird at the window any sudden move and she will fly away.
I am working on bulding attraction , she needs to want me before we can make any real progress with our new R .
Its already a new R , just were it heads is an unknown.
