Kids aren't going with us. Just the two of us. Good, bad who knows. The youngest wouldn't do well at a funeral and the oldest I just don't know if he should go. My H isn't sure either so I'm leaning toward not taking him. He knows who she was but hadn't seen her in a couple years. I'm also afraid if we take him his grandparents who also haven't seen him for a couple years will just be all over him. I know that sounds like an odd thing to say but my H stopped talking to his parents and doesn't want them having the same influence over ours that they've had over my SS. And maybe he should remember her as the nice old lady and not the one laying in a casket.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07
