Thanks for all the support everybody. This website really helps me by letting me vent here instead of to H. I went to the counselor this afternoon..last minute appointment. She had seen him right before me. She really does help me put all my thoughts into words.
I think I am just going to have to be patient. That is so hard. But I will be. I think when I push him is when he makes hasty decisions, like moving out and saying he wants a divorce. Instead of pushing I just need to give him time.
Here are my goals: -No more fighting -No more snooping (that's a big one for me!)...haven't snooped in days and I really do feel better. -Work on myself (continue to work out and GAL) -Be patient
Maybe writing it down will help. I have done good with the last two encounters. I figure the next time I will see him will be on Wednesday at the counselor.
I am still trying to decide if I am going to tell him that I am going home next week. Any suggestions? I don't really know why I wouldn't other than for him to wonder where I am for a little while.
