Well, I bought shoes, jeans and shirts....What???? I want to look DAMN good and show off my new sizes
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From the first month he left, my H wanted to just pay the mortgage. I said "No, you can pay me XXXX in child support, which is what would be required in this state if we were D." It was about the same amount of money, but the point is that I wanted him to know what it would be like later. I wanted control over what I spent the money on and I wanted to know when things were paid. Also, if I pay the mortgage I can claim it on my taxes and he cannot. My L did say that I could legally ask for more money before we are D, but I did want to do it. I am trying to keep my eye on the big prize of getting him to give the house equity to the children for college funds. (So far, he has agreed!)
I think this sounds like a good idea. I can use the support to pay the mortgage payments.
You know what hurts the most? He was almost implying that I was trying to take him out. I want to tell him that if that's what I wanted, I would do it. I feel like I've been generous and kind to him throughout this and he is being just a jacka**.
I just cannot deal w/his craziness anymore.
Me-BS 38 X-WS 36 Separated 11/15/2006 Filed for D 8/1/2007 Divorce Final 12/21/2007 S13, S13 (twins), D9 Married 13 Yrs Together 20 Yrs
