Why do these things happen Vlll

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I've asked my SIL countless times if I'm being stupid.

Well what was her answer.

Like you I think if he'd open up to me we could make this work and have a great marriage.

It is up to them to decide that, we can only do what is right for us at the current moment.

Could I be fooling myself. Sure but right now I still feel I need to do everything I can to save my marriage.

We are not fooling ourselves, we know it looks pretty bleak at times, the way I have been thinking about it is that she stood and was strong for our marriage for 10 years, just reversed now and I am the won who is standing for the marriage.

Only you can decide when enough is enough.

Funny, I am the make a decision and go with it type person, now I couldn't make a decision if my life depended on it.