Yeah I don't think you'd hear any of us complaining.
I've asked my SIL countless times if I'm being stupid. Like you I think if he'd open up to me we could make this work and have a great marriage. Could I be fooling myself. Sure but right now I still feel I need to do everything I can to save my marriage.
Only you can decide when enough is enough.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07