Actually, I think I was one of the first nerds on the planet, and in a distant land too. Recent proof? Went to see Transformers with my D14 and S20, and loved it, to the point that we were discussing the ins and outs of their choosing a city to do battle, etc.! And I really enjoyed Batman Begins, so I am thrilled they are making a sequel. I am a Sci-Fi fan, but not to the point of being a Trekkie (or do they call them Trekkers, or something?).
Oh, and you were so splashed all over the post ... kidding! You sound like you're doing just fine. Your little ones sound so cute! Just keep giving your W space to work out what she thinks needs working out. In the meantime, focus on you and the kids, which includes the ever popular GAL.
Take care!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim