You are no longer required to keep her dirty little secret.
Hey, Theo. I respect your opinion a great deal. I made her a promise that I would not tell anybody about the affair. However, I have made some changes, which I have shared with WAW, to this promise. For example, I told her that, in the event of the demise of our marriage, I reserve the right to tell any woman that I am serious with.
The reason I have kept the secret is that I do not want to soil her reputation unnecessarily. I truly believe that we will one day be reconciled. In the event, after the divorce, that her relationship with OM gets even more serious and reconciliation looks unlikely, I fully intend to let the cat out.
Honestly, because of the circumstances, I don't believe that I will need to tell anybody anything. They will figure it out...
