Thanks Ellie - that was my gut feeling too. Just wanted to be sure I wasn't totally off base (since we know how un-trustworthy those gut feelings can be sometimes!). That's my guess too - either something to confess, or a complaint about me/the M that he doesn't want me to hear. Either way I agree we probably can't move forward until he's had a chance to talk to her about it.

Must say I am REALLY glad he likes and trusts her so much. To go from "fine if you're dragging me along I'll go" last year to wanting very much to 1. go and 2. go by himself (i.e. not just dragged along by me) is pretty good, I think.


Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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