H is moving out this week and says he'll file for divorce. I have NEVER begged, whined, cried, pleaded or anything to make him stay. I have always let him do what he felt he needed to. He is not speaking to me, and I don't know what will happen after he moves out. I can't stop doing harmful things, because I don't do them in the first place. How can I open lines of communication? I always let him inititate contact, so as not to "cling". We have n o kids or financial arragenemtns to discuss, so no real reason to stay in touch. Any help is appreciated!