As for me maybe I should not spoil my next W. Massages, pedicures, support of her goals, time for herself, time for her friends, support for her career.... Maybe I need to through that out the window and turn into a jackass myself.... I have to say that I do not like the way that sounds.
Don't you dare turn into a jackass. She is absolutely crazy for leaving you. My H didn't do hardly anything that you listed. I would loved to be spoiled...my H never spoiled me. Next time, I'm going for a nice guy. My H was the type of guy that a lot of women "think" that they want but then like myself they learn the hard way. I think he is the complete opposite of you...actually the complete opposite of me. He is the flirty, hardworking, trouble-making...I don't take any crap from anyone...don't tell me I can't do it kind of guy. When we were in high school, our principal saw us at a basketball game together and he said "you don't go out with him, do you?" I was the nice, smart valedictorian...he was the trouble-making farm kid. I thought we made each other better people...obviously, we didn't. I think that I gave my H a better life than he ever would have had. I think that now he is living up to the expectations that everyone had for him. It's very sad...his own uncle said he had life made and he threw it all away.
It's too bad that you live so far away, you sound the type of nice guy I might be looking for in a few months. You seem like a really sweet guy who got the raw end of the deal. Don't worry there are girls who like nice guys. Don't change...you will find a woman that appreciates you for you.
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Maybe that is what happened, maybe they got bored because we were to nice. Though from what I read that doesn't seem to fit.......you are intelligent, moral, compassionette and walk around in a bikini. I think your H went nuts, that makes more sense to me.
Yeah, me too. How can you be too perfect? My H as a huge pride issue, so he traded me in for someone that is inferior to him...that way he can feel great about himself. I think the better way to handle that would be to better yourself but it was easier to find OW.
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If she were worth a damn then why hide her.
She's definately not worth a damn. I'd like to think it was morals but we all know that he doesn't have any. I'm afraid it has to do with protecting OW. She might fall flat on her face if she ever met me and realizes that she will never fill my shoes. She may have stolen my H, but she will never be half of what I was to him.
