Not trying to be daft here, but- As partners to our spouses, isn't part of our "job" to be a soft place for our spouse to fall? A safe harbor, so that when they are feeling out of sorts, (needy, insecure, whatever) that we are there to hug & kiss them and make them feel all better?
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
