Are you crazy!!! Do not push him to get his own attorney. Just use yours and you will save a ton of money. Once two lawyers are involved it becomes a feeding frenzy. Just have your L write everything up and hopefully he will be lazy and agree to everything. If he asks you about something, say "Oh, my L says this is standard." He won't want to look stupid. Trust me on this, Bam.
You did great, Bam. Hang in there. Do something fun with the kids tonight. Go buy yourself a Build-A-Bear or something.
Me45 H45 D13 S10 together-23 years married-21 years MLC Divorced 10/3/07 Married to a wonderful new man.