Okay, so I have a question...can someone be too nice? Two times last weekend I was told that I was "too nice"...once by sil and once by a coworker (coversation was about work). I like to think of myself as a genuinely nice person...not fake, just nice. I have lost my temper with H and let him have it a couple of times over the last eight months, but most of the time I have been decent...probably too pleasant with him. I thought that I was taking the high road. I definately got walked on some but don't we all in this sitch...after all we are the ones trying to salvage a marriage while our WAS are doing whatever they darn well please.
Okay, so the other thing that I just had to share has to do with OW. If anyone has been following my sitch, this will make sense. A month ago, H showed up to a graduation party that I was at driving OW's car, but no OW. I was furious....I let him have it once and for all. We've only talked twice since because that was it for me. Anyway back to that night...I figured he dropped OW at one of his friend's house (he's done that before). Well, it turns out he dropped her off at a bar. I find it rather hilarious myself. My H picked her up in a bar, so if the shoe fits. I would never just walk into a bar by myself...especially in a town where I don't know anyone. Chalk one more up for me...she's living up to her reputation...she probably hit on another married man while she was there.
