Just wanted to say, on your thread as I know a lot of people gain so much from you, my situtation is almost identical to yours I'm in the UK (if that makes any difference!)
Every one on this board is amazing I just wish I had the words to help as well but I can't put things across as well as CVA, GD et al one other person I've found as amazing is Frank D he was sucessful and went through some pretty rough situations so if anyone feels their situation is rubbish check out his.
Sorry for the hijack but hopefully when I make it I can contribute more.
All the best to everyone and Nomopo for saying what a lot of people would like to but can't
Charlie
Me 39 W 39 D8 S5 Married 13yrs Together 20years EA June 06 Ilyninlwy Jan 07 Seperated Jan 07