we really all want to help you... but you're not letting us.
if you want us to help you best.. you need to tell us more.
All the details you are hiding.
By now, most people are talking their fingers ragged I think you're trying to hide things, that you are perhaps ashamed of. Please say what has been going on in the last year between you both, and from you both.
No husband is willing to file divorce after 2 months of arguing. What has really been going on between you?
If you want advice on what "180s" to do in your life.. you first have to tell us what your life is like now!
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle