I think I am in Over My Head...

[Dom R]

Then says it is because things she did - hmm maybe not all roses and kisses in other relationship - boy do I hope so! They are still going to be "friends" though and see each other etc.

hello.. jumping in here to give unsolicited unprofessional advice :-)

From what i've ready of other people's stories:
you have a window of opportunity here. you have a chance to win him back.. but not by throwing yourself on him. instead, by being a good friend (but also, an attractive friend ;-) )

Hopefully, by now, you have figured out the things that (in his own mind at least) attracted your H to the OW instead of you. and the things that pushed him away from you.

So.. do the things he needs from you, stop doing the things he dislikes from you... and be patient.
it's too bad you are going to be away from him for a week.
Hopefully, it will make him miss you more, not be distant.

Why did he not tell you about him stopping with OW? becuase that would give you hope, and he doesnt want to do that. he hasnt decided to come back to you. if he had.... THEN he would have told you about it.

you already have opened his heart a crack. you are doing GREAT! he's talking to you about his future. talking to you as a friend he trusts. Keep doing it.. (but not pushy... just at the pace HE feels comfortable with...) keep being a close friend... you're doing great!