H - interesting fact I came across today - 80% of all divorces are because of irreconcilable differences - you make a great point, but let's call it what it is ADULTERY and it's not the fault of the spouse hanging out at home posting in abbreviations on-line, searching for help. It's only irreconcialable if the adulterer doesn't want to own up to their own immature behavior...as you have so eloquently depicted...
BTW, pictures??!!
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley