I got to get in on this. I asked my wife (before if found the pictures) "ARE YOU HAVING AN AFFAIR" her answer "no but I have strong feeling for someone"
After the Pictures her answer "can't we just say we are having irreconcilable differences?

I guess so. I think you should not sleep with OM and you do = irreconcilable differences

Husband

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know