Well he's emailed me all day and called me on his lunch. I've handled all of our arrangements to go. I booked the hotel, printed out directions, am ordering flowers for the funeral, took care of getting a sitter for the kids, and just being there for him to talk too. It feels really good to be able to just bet there. And he thanked me for taking care of everything.
Am I looking at all of this as positives? No not really. This situation isn't about trying to get him back this is about being there for him during this time. Would it be great if he could one day look back on this and notice? Sure. Since one of his reasons for leaving was I wasn't there for him. All I know is right now he's in pain and I will be there for him to help him thru when he'll let me. And it actually feels good to be able to do something for him even though we aren't together.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07
