GD I dont think that this would be the nail in the coffin by any stretch. Yes she may not be happy about what happened, but you did the right things to make sure she was understood.
No way, no how is this what would make her go one way or another.
Just my POV.
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.